7PS: The value of shyness 🀐


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The holidays can bring anxiety.

It's a season of gatherings, where sociability is celebrated.

But for some of us, the idea of attending events & meeting folks is overwhelming.

In a world that values outgoing personalities, it's OK to be introverted.

Many artists are shy.

The Economist writes, "Shyness & creativity often go hand in hand."

Being peculiar or reserved isn't a flaw.

It's part of what makes us unique.

So this season (and every season!), if you'd rather keep to yourself, remember that some of the most celebrated creators felt the same way.
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-Kabir

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​Seven Point Sunday - December 21
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Read Essentialism by George McKeown. I love this book. What is essential? Eliminate everything else. It takes courage to say no, erect boundaries. Stop celebrating how busy you are. People think I'm busy. But I have 0 meetings on my calendar.
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🎡 Music

​Holiday Soul by Bobby Timmons. 1964 release which blends hard bop and soul jazz with holiday tunes.
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​Postcards for a Christmas: Bilingual Arabic Holiday Songs by Amanda Abizaid. Holiday themes with Arabic lyrics, creating a multicultural celebration.

​Night Divine by Quinn Hedges. Soulful renditions of carols. Warm & intimate feel to holiday favorites.
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Please help me craft a heartfelt message for my holiday card. Make it warm, genuine, and add a touch of humor that friends and family will love.
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​It's OK to feel melancholy during the holidays​

​The hustle culture can wait for the holidays​

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